Employer and Employee

Here are lessons that I've got around the relations between employer and employee:

1. People have diverse style to work out, including how to communicate with his/ her employee(s). Because employee is 'under' the boss, sometimes and somehow, we just need to be calm and follow his/ her thoughts, eventhough we know what the fact is. We just hope and pray that someday he/ she will understand what we mean by facing the effects directly. Yes, it takes time and correlate with the choices. Options that actually we can make whether still be in his/ her side or not.

2. Boss is different with 'leader'. Leader will listen, give right direction, and invite the employee(s) to do the best still in the right way. Boss could do the same thing with the leader but we don't know persistently whether he or she will listen us carefully, give us the truly right decision, and invite us to do the best also in the right track or not. Because sound's like boss has hobby to pressing, intimadating, and barking us if there is something wrong and or even when something is just fine actually.

3. Eventhough he/ she is a leader, but he/ she is still human. There is a character that embedded to him/ her inherently. Something that psychologically can not to be altered so easily. It makes us to be more clever to play our roles behind him/ her. When the appropriate time we should to be his/ her partner (in crime) in and outside of the company building, or when we should just to be his/ her silent puppies.

Finally, it's no need to be pessimistic to overcome kind of leader like this. We, as independent human, always have the options to react. Several of those choices might be:

1. Still calm and say yes for the whole things he/ she makes in your job.
2. Try the best first to counter your problem eventhough we need to confront with him/ her in hotty situation, but at least you did something for truth.
3. Extremely you decide to go out of the him/ her and the company with a hope that you can find someone better to guide you to work out with smart, wise, and full integrity.

Any idea????